When you know what you want you need to figure out how to get to that place. And here I am going to show you the secret of achieving just that!
First of all, to become the person you want to be and have the life you want to have – You need to know what that person and that life looks like.
I recommend you read my post on Figuring out what you really want, to get a clear picture of what it is you want your life to look like.
So, when you know what your dream life looks like you need to make some changes to be able to attain that life. You see, to get the type of life you desire, you need to start living and acting like you’re already there!
You need to transform the way you think and feel about your life, before you have reached your destination.
The reason this is so important is that if you are still in the mindset of confusion and not knowing what to do to move forward towards your dream life, you wont be taking the actions you need to actually get to the place where you live the life of your dreams.
So what you need to figure out is who you need to be to transform your life into what you dream of. Ask yourself theses questions:
What does this person look like? What habits does she have? What does she wear? What does she eat? Does she sleep in or wake up early? Does she relax or work out? Is she keeping busy with all the things that wants her attention or is she prioritizing the right things to be productive? How does she respond to setbacks and failure?
How does she spend her free time? Does she spend hours of scrolling through social media or does she read a book?
What is her way of looking at money? Does she feel that money is hard to earn or that it will come to her with ease?
How does she feel about herself? Is her self-confidence low or high? How does she speak about herself, her dreams and her goals?
I could go on, but I think you get the point. The goal here is to become the woman you want to be. To be her, already, is what will make changes happen for you. Showing up as the woman you want to be, thinking like her, feeling like her and acting like her will be what leads you to having the life you dream of.
Knowing what the person you want to become is like, is key to actually becoming her.
All these questions above are so important to figure out the answers to because when you do, you can start being that person today. You can start thinking and feeling like that person and that is what will transform your life into what you dream of!
When you start thinking and feeling like the person you want to be, you will automatically start making different choices and changing your actions accordingly and if you start doing things differently you will get different results.
Your next step
What I recommend you do now is to sit down with a piece of paper and write down who you want to be, and then start making conscious choices in how you think and act and making sure those two align.
If you feel the need of some guidance and help to figure this out, I am here to help you! Please reach out to me to talk more about where you’re at and where you want to be, and together we will make a plan to get you there!
Make sure to schedule a FREE consultation today to get started on the journey towards your dream life!